Thursday, March 25, 2010

when love is the only thing that matters most...



received an email that was really touching.. it seriously touched my heart and i almost teared after finished reading it...


The email :

Title: Can I Borrow RM 25?

A woman came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find her 5-year old son waiting for her at the door.

SON: 'Mummy, may I ask you a question?'

MUM: 'Yeah sure, what it is?' replied the woman.

SON: 'Mummy, how much do you make an hour?'

MUM: 'That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?' the woman said angrily.

SON: 'I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?'

MUM: 'If you must know, I make RM 50 an hour.'

SON: 'Oh,' the little boy replied, with his head down.

SON: 'Mummy, may I please borrow RM 25?'

The mother was furious, 'If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I don't work hard everyday for such childish frivolities.'

The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.

The woman sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?

After about an hour or so, the woman had calmed down, and started to think:

Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that RM 25 and he really didn't ask for money very often
. The woman went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.

'Are you asleep, son?' She asked.

'No Mummy, I'm awake,' replied the boy.

'I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier' said the woman. 'It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the RM 25 you asked for.'

The little boy sat straight up, smiling. 'Oh, thank you Mummy!' he yelled. Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.

The woman saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again.

The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his mother.

'Why do you want more money if you already have some?' the mother grumbled.

'Because I didn't have enough, but now I do,' the little boy replied.

'Mummy, I have RM 50 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you.'


The mother was crushed. She put his arms around her little son, and she begged for his forgiveness.


It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do remember to share that RM 50 worth of your time with someone you love.


If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of hours. But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives.



the moral of this story is very very true... we shud never take our loved ones for granted... we shud never expect them to noe that we love them or expect that they'll love us back... we shud always assure them that we do love them and show it thru our actions.. instead spending all of our time chasing after things that are oni for our pleasures and which will oni last for that moment, we shud use all those time and spend it with the people we love most... cuz the time spent with them will become memories that will last forever...

some people longed to love and to be loved back by their loved ones, but unfortunately they dun have such chances... so if u have those chances, do not juz let it slipped thru ur fingers... cuz seriously we will not noe wat we hav til its gone... so, cherish and appreciate every moment spent wif the ppl u lovee.. no matter how short or how long the time spent, u noe u will still hav memories that come after it :)

lots of lovee, cass :)


yeapp.. and indeed all u need is lovee :)

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Break time wif jess :)

yeahh i was supposed to post this long time ago.. but was lazzie :P haha yeahh so here it is.. this post is about da break times i had wif jess during college :)


Date : 12th March 2010
Venue : Citrus Plus

haha yeahh it was da 2nd time we went to eat here... its kinda like a cafe style restaurant.. da concept of this restaurant is like an Italian's... we couldnt decide wat we wanted to eat.. so i taught jess how we Cheahs usually eat... HAHA... usually when my family go out and eat, each of us dun usually hav our own main course.. cuz my dad prefer ordering a few dishes and we will all share... sometimes, we oni eat appetizers for dinner.. cuz my dad will order like 7 diff types of appetizers... haha afta telling dat to jess, she gave me dat look.. haha but in da end she tried eating my way oso.. so we ordered 3 dishes and shared.. hahah it was kinda fun trying this way of eating wif a friend :)

so here are the dishes...


#1 POTATO SALAD ....

#2 GRANNY'S CUTLET RECIPE...

#3 SHEPHERD'S PIE...

hahaha it was very delicious and filling... seriously, we almost cant finish it.. da one we both love best was da shepherd's pie.. yummyyyyyy :P haha...

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Date: 16th March 2010
Venue: Street Cafe

and this is a korean restaurant where we've been like a zillion times d.. haha.. its kinda nice lah like if u juz need sumthing to fill ur empty tummy... and da best thing about this korean restaurant is dat da food is not spicyy.. seriously, usually korean food wud be like very very spicyy.. so, i think this place is highly recommended for korean fans who cant really tahan spicy food... haha..


camwhored while waiting for our orders... haha..

the one and oni me XD

jess :)



<3...

yeappp and our symmetrical lunch boxes !! haha coincidentally dat day we ordered da same thing !! haha so tadahhhh !! :P


okieee.. i think dats it... haha i noe its some random post cuz i dunno wat else to blog about.. so yeahh randomly found sumthing to blog about...

anyways, need to get back to my esl assignments.. its eating me alive !! :S hahaa..

lovessss :)



i dun wanna walk this road if i am to walk it alone...

Friday, March 19, 2010

someone to fall back on :)

yeah yeahh i noe i havent been updating for more than a month.. as most of u guys can tell by now, im seriously a very lazzie blogger.. very very very LAZZIE !! :P haha anyways.. i got kinda a few stuff i wanna talk or rather post about.. but since its almost 2am now.. i'll save it for anotha day (which i dunno when, but i hope its soon) :P ahaha u see.. i oni get da blogging aura at weird hours when i oni hav limited time !! haha so annoying.. anyways.. da reason i came here was not to crap those few lines.. haha but to actually share a really nice song wif u guys.. i find it nice at least, dunno bout u.. well i think dis song most of u might hav heard it but maybe dun remember it adyy..

its actually a song from da movie bandslam :) its title is (refer to my post's title above) :P haha .. its sang by Alyson Michalka in da movie.. but juz found out dat it was actually sang before by anotha guy called Jason Robert Brown... but i so prefer da version sang by alyson.. it sound so much nicer...

go check out da song kayh :) i cant seem to post da video here.. dunno why.. blogger is so not liking me todayy .. haha..

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I'll never be

A knight in armor
With a sword in hand,
Or a kamikaze fighter;
Dont count on me
To storm the barricades
And take a stand,
Or hold my ground;
Youll never see
Any scars or wounds -
I dont walk on coals,
I wont walk on water:

I am no prince,

I am no saint,
I am not anyones wildest dream,
But I will stand behind
And be someone to fall back on.

Some comedy -
Youre bruised and beaten down
And Im the one
Whos looking for a favor.
Still, honestly,
You dont believe me
But the things I have
Are the things you need.
You look at me
Like I dont make sense,
Like a waste of time,
Like it serves no purpose -

I am no prince,

I am no saint,
And if thats what you believe you need,
Youre wrong - you dont need much,
You need someone to fall back on...

And Ill be that:
Ill take your side.
If Im the only one,
Im used to that.
Ive been alone,
Id rather be
The half of us,
The least of you,
The best of me.

And I will be
i'll be Your prince,
Ill be your saint,
I will go crashing through fences
In your name. I will, I swear -
Ill be someone to fall back on!
Ill be the one who waits,
And for as long as youll let me,
I will be the one you need.
Ill be someone to fall back on
ill be someone to fall back on
one to fall back on...
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i seriously seriously do love this song very much at the moment.. i find it very soothing and relieving :D


i juz wanna be someone u can fall back on :)